Do you think you are being dominated by your partner all the time? Does he control your life? Does he keep demanding more? If the answer to these questions is "YES", then it is time to put your foot down and shift the power gear.
It is a known fact that a woman likes to please her man.
She tries to keep her man happy by attending to his every little need.
But does your partner acknowledge that? Or does he want more? If that is the case, then you have to wake up and take charge of your life.
Women tend to ignore themselves in order to keep their men happy.
What starts as a small sacrifice ends up being total surrender of control.
Soon you are left with no opinion of your own.
You start by making small compromises.
You keep thinking that if he is happy then so am I.
This is where you start losing control.
Subsequently you start saying "yes" to everything he says.
What happens next? You are no longer appreciated for your sacrifices.
And lastly, your relationship becomes boring and you end up parting ways.
So how do you gain control of the situation? To make your relationship work,it is necessary to have the right kind of balance.
Both the partners should have an equal say in everything they do,their home, their kids, their jobs, everything.
You don't have to agree on everything.
But it is important to acknowledge and respect each others' feelings and desires.
If you are in a relationship where you are being controlled,then you need to shift the power dynamic.
That doesn't mean you start controlling him like a freak.
You have every right to think about yourself, your goals, your happiness.
It is okay to say "NO".
You have to be reasonable when it comes to his demands.
If you think that he will love you more because you are sacrificing your desires,you are sadly mistaken.
The key to a successful relationship is equal share of joy and sorrow.
Remember that he will be happy ONLY if YOU are HAPPY.